Kindsighting

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I love this. As a teacher, I have repeatedly observed that the ability to learn and grow from your mistakes can make all the difference in the world in having the ability to adapt and change as an individual. Figuring out what to do differently next time—and deciding how best to implement those step-by-step changes—is a whole lot more productive than helplessly flailing about beating yourself up. Keep this in mind the next time you have one of those “what was I THINKING???” moments. Instead, consider reflecting on what you were learning. And how will what you learned change your [...] Read more »

On a Need-to-Know Basis

You remember when you were a kid, when in response to your 24/7 stream of questions, your parents would tell you every now and then that it was just better not to know some things? (You know, in response to the constant barrage of “whys” that rolled out of you like breathing, many regarding ethical quandaries and issues of morality far beyond your child’s capacity to process or understand?) Do you remember how you didn’t believe them? Not really? And how you couldn’t fathom there would ever be anything in the world it would be better not to know? And [...] Read more »

On Thinking Too Much

I’m sure we’ve all heard this accusation leveled at us somewhere in our past. Does the phrase “You think too much” ring a bell? Most of us have been accused of this at some point in our lives, and some people get informed of this judgement considerably more often than others do, but still, I suspect almost all of us have had such an experience. What I find most fascinating is that whenever I am being told I think too much, it is almost always by someone who disagrees with my viewpoint. In fact, I can’t ever remember being told [...] Read more »

Short hiatus

Due to both an across-town move and a death in my husband’s family, I’ve not had a chance to post for the last week and a half. I hope to be back next Monday. Thanks, all~     Read more »

Out of the mouths of babes…

  Happy Monday, everyone! And P.S.? If wearing the cape and tights makes you feel better and helps you save the world—or at least keeps your cuppa joe from splatting into your bag—by all means wear them, too! Just saying… Read more »

Quotes for early January

Nobody can go back and start a new beginning, but anyone can start today and make a new ending~~Maria Robinson People will accept your idea much more readily if you tell them Benjamin Franklin said it first~~David H. Comins If we all did the things we are capable of, we would astound ourselves~~Thomas Edison Don’t postpone joy until you have learned all of your lessons. Joy is your lesson~~Alan Cohen Read more »

Just go for it!

I’ve liked many things about the Nike “Just Do It” series of ads for years now. And this wonderful poster echoes the same idea. It’s surprising how many people of all ages I’ve known who really don’t like their life very much, or their job, or their career, or their social life, or their dating service, or even themselves. But rather than start on the changes that will eventually empower them to like one or many of these things much better, they settle for just complaining about it instead. Sometimes for many years or even decades, in fact. “This is [...] Read more »

On the End of a Relationship

As painful as it is, the time has finally come to permanently part ways. For nearly 10 years I have struggled through this relationship, and it’s reached the point of no return. No matter how much love is expended, there comes a time when a relationship is simply too toxic and dysfunctional, and the only recourse is to move on. Last fall I declared a trial separation, and in a last-ditch effort to hold it together, I tried counseling. I tried re-imagining. In short, I tried just about anything anybody said they thought would help. I really did. But it [...] Read more »

The Royal Wedding

This morning I watched the real-time wedding of Prince William and Catherine Middleton via YouTube’s live, streaming Royal Channel. Prior to this morning, my only experience with royal weddings was the video clip you will see below. In my humble opinion, this morning’s royal wedding went considerably better than the one you’re about to see. (But I’ll let you be the judge of that.) In the meantime, happy viewing, happy sconing, happy tea-drinking, and happy Union-Jack-waving if you plan to catch the Westminster Abbey wedding event via DVR later on.  : ) Best wishes to the newly-wedded royals! Read more »

On the Women of the Temperance Movement

Notwithstanding the wonderfully hilarious photo above, I have long viewed the American women's temperance movement of the 19th century with a great deal of respect. Read more »

On Devastation

Life changes so suddenly sometimes, doesn’t it? A couple weekends ago a house two doors down from us burned. Coming back after a grocery run, I observed a nasty dust storm blowing violently through the street, and I noted to myself that the weather forecasters weren’t kidding when they spoke of the terrible winds predicted to arrive. But then I saw the billowing smoke pouring from the white house, and I heard the screaming sirens as I pulled in our driveway, and suddenly I realized this was no dust storm at all. Fire trucks swarmed the entire street as they [...] Read more »

On Information, Writing, Truth, and Veracity

In a world where information is available at the speed of light and in exponentially-increasing quantities, it can get messy to determine what’s fact and what’s not, can’t it? I was reflecting on this when it came to my attention recently that information I had about a topic might not be provably accurate. This would be no big deal except that I’d once written a blog post that included this particular bit of information, and now that I’d found it was possible that information I’d used was flawed, I needed to immediately correct any inaccuracies. Now I am no journalist, [...] Read more »

A New Month, New Quotes

Blessed are those with a shovel in their car when going to church in DC, for they shall have a parking space~~Elizabeth Owens Wakefield Oh, my friend, it's not what they take away from you that counts. It's what you do with what you have left~~Hubert Humphrey What is more irrational? A man who believes in a God he cannot see, or a man who is offended by a God he does not believe in?~~Brad Stine Read more »

How to be an Opera Star Circa 1921

Not long ago I was poking around the bookshelves of a local secondhand store when an old book caught my eye. Intrigued, I pulled the book with the forest-green, gold-imprinted cover entitled Great Singers on the Art of Singing off the shelf. Published by the Theodore Presser Company in 1921, it was a compendium of that era’s famous operatic stars sharing personal reflections and advice on how to develop into a great singer. As I browsed the chapters, I knew I’d hit a mother lode of first-person operatic history in James Francis Cooke, editor of said volume. I couldn’t get [...] Read more »

The latest burglary report

Folks, I simply can’t resist sharing this unbelievable burglary account with you. Hailing from the state of Florida, where I once lived, these burglars are among the most, uh, er, extraordinarily unorthodox of their entire profession. Here’s the headline and link: Dumb, dumber and dumbest: Burglars snort ashes of a man and two dogs after they mistook them for cocaine Read more »

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